Jun 24, 2016

The kind of woman I'll try to be

A high quality woman encourages you to pursue your goals, but she doesn't micromanage.
She trusts you to make the right decisions in your own life.
She's the cheerleader, not the coach.

She doesn't try to make you jealous.
She's secure in her worth, and your ability to recognize how valuable she is. She doesn't need to play games to "trick" you into seeing her for what she is.

She doesn't have a princess complex. She demands that you treat her with respect -- but because she is a person you love, not because she is a woman and therefore magically entitled to something.
She has part of her life that doesn't involve you. Friends, hobbies, carriers -- whatever. She's confident and independent enough to not need your involvement in everything she does.

You wouldn't think twice about inviting her into different parts of your life. She's mature enough to make a good impression with your collagues and wise enough to know letting loose with your friends and having fun doesn't mean she's immature.

She takes care of herself. This doesn't mean she's perfect. It means she is always improving. She's self-aware and sees what issues she has and is self-motivated enough to constantly be working to improve them.
She has opinion more than "I don't know" and she can talk calmly and non-hyperbolically about them. If she disagree with you, you can have conversations about it without anyone raising their voice.

She knows what she wants in life. She doesn't change her value or goals to tailor fit the guy she is with.
You feel lucky to be dating her because you know she would never date anyone just to date them. She isn't afraid to be single and she is self-sufficient.
You know, she's dating you because she's attracted to you and she thinks that you will help each other grow to be even higher quality, together."

AZS

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